Did you know that the difference between being circumcised or not could reflect on your ability to be sensitive to your partner before, during and after love-making? When you are circumcised you have to make an extra effort to tune in to sensitivity in both your own body and your partner's.
Please read the new article I posted above Anatomy of the Penis, Mechanics of Intercourse. Without circumcision you have about 20,000 nerve endings in the outer foreskin, inner foreskin, frenulum and frenar band and glans. When circumcised you have only about 4,000 nerve endings left. A woman has about 10,000-20,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, vulvae, and surrounding inner and outer tissue, depending which areas are included in the count.
Physically this puts a huge demand on the circumcised male to pay closer attention to their sensitivity. Your 4.000 nerve endings have to be 5 times as aware as the uncircumcised male's 20,000. Psychologically it makes you think that the woman has the same level of sensitivity as you do. She does not, she is more sensitive. With your foreskin intact you would enjoy foreplay a lot more, similar to a woman. You would have more pleasure in longer, slower lovemaking. Orgasm would not be as crucial for satisfactory lovemaking. The woman wouldn't need as much lubricant, or her lubricant would stay in her vagina more easily if you were not circumcised.
Key things to be aware of about sensitivity levels:
1. The woman does not feel as aroused as quickly as you. Her juices take time to build up. So caress her softly, smoothly, with tenderness and learn to enjoy it.
2. Do not go straight for the nipple. That's what a baby does when the breast is engorged with milk. Don't pinch or pull the nipple straight out the gate. You want to stimulate the woman's sexual response to you so play with her desire. Your sensual erotic touch is what opens her, and it's what stimulates estrogen and the juices that engorge the lips, the breasts, the vulvae and vagina. It is better that she already feels engorged when you head for the nipple.
3. Close your eyes and notice the glans of your penis and always touch it with conscious awareness. Learn what kind of touch makes you notice your sensitivity to pleasure. Learn to play in that range of sensation and practice breathing into the sensations.
4. When approaching her genitalia do not go straight for the clitoris. You may like your penis grabbed and stimulated right away. You may not realize the woman does not like this. Soft palpating touch evokes the sensual juices out of her. Extreme light touch fires the outer nerve endings. Heavy touch or fast rubbing tries to stimulate something deeper more quickly. Yet it is the sensitive sensual touch that will build the internal desire, physically and psychologically.
5. Tune in. There's nothing a woman loves more than a man who will tune in to her. If you ask her questions remember to whisper or speak sensitively. Don't disrupt the trance you have already induced as it will block the flow of hormones, the ones needed to keep the pleasure cycle flowing. Learn how to communicate with the goddess before you, verbally and non-verbally.
6. Patience is more than a virtue ~ it's pure gold when it comes to lovemaking. Whether a long slow session playing in pleasure for hours or a short risky romp, patience will bring more satisfaction and happiness to your love life than not.
Lovingly
Shakra
